While there's nothing inherently wrong with watching porn, the expectations it sets for women in the bedroom can be quite damaging. It’s important to remember that you don’t have to enjoy or replicate any of the actions depicted in adult films. This point was highlighted when Redditor u/breadnbed asked the community, "What has porn normalized that isn’t really normal?" Here are 16 of the most insightful responses:

1. “When did turning her butthole inside out become a thing?"— Many people are surprised by the extreme and often unrealistic acts portrayed in porn that have no basis in typical sexual experiences. — u/Teledildonic

2. “Huge dicks. A horse-sized dick that can stay hard for two hours isn’t normal, nor is it necessary.” — This reflects the unrealistic body standards that porn often promotes, leading to insecurity and pressure for both partners. — u/Raigheb

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3. “Dudes just going as fast as possible with no lube or much foreplay at all. Most women experience awkward or even painful sex due to this.” — The rush often portrayed in porn neglects the need for adequate preparation and intimacy. — u/Sarcastic_Rocket

4. "Being loud the second someone touches down there.”— This expectation can create pressure on women to perform in a certain way, rather than allowing for genuine emotional connection. — u/ewatangier

5. “Being rough without asking for consent is a big issue. Consent should always be discussed beforehand.” — This highlights the critical need for communication about boundaries and desires. — u/ylaii

6. “Taking it out the back and putting it in the front without preparation can lead to severe infections.”— This point underscores the importance of hygiene and safe practices in sexual activities. — u/AstralAxis

7. “The idea that sex begins after just 30 seconds of kissing. I enjoy long make-out sessions before moving on.”*— This response emphasizes that intimacy can build over time and doesn’t need to fit a specific timeline. — u/atticusfinch1973

8. “Men having multiple orgasms back-to-back with no refractory period is unrealistic.”— This reflects the varied sexual experiences among individuals and the myth of perpetual sexual readiness. — u/justinsayin

9. “Surprise anal sex requires significant preparation to be both safe and enjoyable.” — This comment points out the need for proper communication and consent when exploring new sexual practices. — u/carrot_alive00

10. “Women apparently reaching orgasm from oral alone, judging by the sounds they make, isn’t accurate.” — This comment addresses the misconception that all women can achieve orgasm solely through oral sex without additional stimulation. — u/SnooChickens9666

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11. “Women having orgasms through penetration alone is often overstated; many need stimulation in other areas as well.” — This highlights the diversity of sexual experiences and preferences. — u/Agreeable-Walk1886

12. “Double penetration is often portrayed but isn’t common in most people's experiences.” — This illustrates how porn can create unrealistic expectations around what is "normal" in sexual relationships. — u/Small3ggplantEnergy

13. “The expectation that everyone should be ready for sex all the time, and that longer sessions are better, is not realistic.” — This comment reflects the pressure that people often feel regarding sexual performance. — u/pythonic-nomad

14. “Rubbing the clit hard and fast with multiple fingers isn’t always the best approach—gentleness and attention to sensitivity are crucial.” — This suggests a more mindful and responsive approach to sexual pleasure. — u/purpleviola4645

15. “Simultaneous orgasms are magical but not the norm.” — This response emphasizes that while they can happen, they shouldn’t be seen as a benchmark for sexual success. — u/uncommoncommoner

16. “Finishing on a partner's face has become more normalized in porn, but it wasn’t always a common practice.”— This reflects changing trends in sexual behavior and the influence of porn on real-life expectations. 

These responses collectively illustrate the disparity between the portrayals of sex in porn and the reality of sexual relationships, emphasizing the importance of communication, consent, and understanding one another’s needs.